Thursday, April 3, 2008

Metaphor People

Sometimes we create or bring people into our personal metaphor reality.

Where these people are non positive, we then run the following pattern:
  • See person in outside world who triggers the metaphor;
  • feel bad;
  • anchor feeling bad to that person. 
We then wonder why we feel bad everytime we see that person. 

In order to change this response we can:
  • change our personal metaphor reality to remove that symbol;
  • become more consciously aware of our personal metaphor reality and choose not to recognize the negative triggers
  • trigger a more resourceful state to that persons external reality
  • Add a recovery strategy to the experience
To restate this, we can:
  • Remove the negative symbol from our landscape
  • Break the connection between the external stimulus and the negative stimulus
  • Create an alternative path from the external stimulus to a new symbol
  • Allow the path from the external stimulus to the internal symbol to remain, and to create  new path from the internal symbol to a more resourceful internal symbol
A final possibility suggests from the world of clean language and symbolic modeling. This would be to find a way to change the "negative" symbol into a "positive" symbol.

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